Well, Jayne and I are fighting again. Well to be honest, it's Jayne and Chad vs. me. And it's over something completely stupid too.
Basically I did one of those funny little things on facebook where you get the photo of multiple little pictures that are so cute, and have things listed under them like "the party animal" and things like that. And I tagged a whole heap of people including Chad, Jayne, Paul and a few others. It was all okay until Paul made one comment that for some reason Chad took offence to and decided to attack him for it, saying something like "Paul should be tagged as the douche, oh wait there isn't one for that". All because Paul said something about 'the couch' which is our code word for a certain person. It's not Jayne or anything like that, so I don't know why Chad was getting so uppety.
Anyway after Chad wrote that comment, Jayne decided she'd be a little smart ass cow and put in "Good one Chad", effectively joining in on an argument that she isn't part of to begin with. So when she decided to stick her nose where it didn't belong, and I finally got sick of Chad, I retaliated at both of them, saying:
"Uncalled for Chad, since you don't know the background.
As for you Jayne, since you probably would agree if you knew he was talking about, stop being a hypocrite."
After that the conversation just degraded, with Chad continuing on the arguement by being a total asshole, provoking Paul into retaliating to what he said. This is what Paul said in the first place:
"Shouldn't the couch be the confused one? Or the fatty? Yes, I'm straight to the point. Love it. I'm dead on :D"
Now like I said before, 'couch' is our codeword for someone who was not actually in this fight at all. It had nothing to do with Chad, nothing to do with Jayne, nothing to do with anyone else who had commented on the photo. So again, I don't know what the hell Chad thought he was doing, whether he thought it was aimed at Jayne, and instead of asking, he just took all his angst at her now dating Gavin and turned it against Paul - which severly disappoints me with him because I thought him so much better than that - or he was just taking it personally, either way Chad was completely unprovoked and a complete bastard about it.
Now between all of these comments, I'm actually talking to Chad on MSN and telling him off for the completely uncalled for comment. He's being a moron and trying to dodge the fact that I'm actually really pissed off at him for it, trying to make me drop the subject, but I held out against him. I told him that he had no idea the history between Paul and the person he was talking about, and he came back with:
"He knows their history, I know his history, etc etc etc" Now you tell me. Is that a viable defence for someone who realistically has no idea what the hell they're talking about? I didn't think so, so I glared at him some more and told him that he was being a complete moron and in the end I told him to have fun on my blocked list. I've blocked Jayne too.
All the while Facebook comments are coming in on the photo like wildfire, including a funny one from Eevari saying "ALL YOUR HATE HAS CAUSED ANNOYING E-MAIL NOTIFICATIONS...STFU ALL OF YOU" (he was tagged in the picture too). In the end I told both Jayne and Chad off completely, and then added that any further comments on the subject on my facebook would be deleted. So what do Chad and Jayne do? Well Jayne puts a comment that says "meowwwwwww :D", then Chad puts one saying "penis." then Jayne puts another one saying "popcorn!". Of course you won't find any of those there anymore, because true to my word I removed them.
But those comments just pissed me off all the more, and I told Chad off for it again, cause them doing that just made me feel like they were trying to make me angry, trying to make me even more pissed off at them, like they didn't even care that I was really hurt by that pointless argument that started on a misunderstanding on Chad's part. I ended up telling Chad to have fun on my blocked list - I had taken him off to go off at him some more, and after Jayne posted that popcorn message, I unblocked her and told her "Fuck off Jayne, you're not funny", then blocked her again. She's still blocked now, and she most likely will be for a very long time if she wants to be a fucking bitch like that.
I actually called her a drama seeker in one of my final messages on Facebook too. Which is all that she looked like by sticking her nose where it didn't belong. It was Chad vs. Paul, which turned into Chad vs. me defending Paul. So where the hell does she fit into the equation? Correct answer? There's no way in hell that she does. Paul's message wasn't about her, and while I know that she doesn't like Paul, doesn't mean that she needs to get involved over every little thing. So much for the promise to be civil Jayne, you ignorant, nosy, drama needing person.
As for Chad? I'm suspecting that he's actually blocked me too now, cause I didn't actually delete him, I just blocked him, so he'd still show up on my MSN list if he was online, but not be able to see me, and he's not. And he's not one to go to bed early either. But hey, right now, considering I've deleted him off Facebook and blocked him (I was so tempted to hit the report button too), I really don't give a rat's ass. I actually thought that he was above all this petty argument starting for the hell of it you know. Just goes to show what a great judge of character that I'm not.
I'm actually feeling rather relieved that I have Jayne blocked at the moment. There's just so much drama surrounding her, and to be honest, I was getting really sick of it. While it may all seem exciting, on the other hand it's really draining on a person. Like this whole thing with Gavin. The Thursday that we went shopping she told me while we were eating lunch (as well as repeatedly throughout the day) that she wanted to be single for a few months, just enjoy the single life. Look how long that lasted. And of course the guys that she had after her (one of them Chad), she had to deal with all their drama and crap and I just didn't ask about all of that because I knew it would drain what energy I had...
Anyway, in other, happier news, I had a good weekend! Saturday I spent with Paul and his uncle Stephen tearing down a rusty old wire fence that his uncle had running down the middle of his sheep paddock. I haven't sweated that much in ages, it was really rather fun =D And no, contrary to Paul's beliefs that I would, being Kiwi and all, I did not chase the sheep. Paul did though, I think my Kiwi might be rubbing off on him xD It was funny watching his nana driving around the paddock on her scooter, with her cute little dog Minnie sitting under her feet and going for a ride. xD
I got attacked by fence twice in the process of cutting it down too. Once on my back, which was a lack of communication between Paul and I and my own stupidity of wearing a singlet, but Paul told me to watch out for my head and my leg on the fence, but forgot to warn me about my back, and the second time was my own fault, I got my foot tangled in some barbed wire that we left on the ground for collection when we were done and tripped over it, so I now have a lovely cut on my back, somewhere on my shoulder blade, and the other on the back of my ankle, just above my Achille's tendon. They don't hurt, but I have battle wounds =D I'm so proud x3
So we were at his Nana's from about 9:30am until about 6pm. We finished the fences at about 3 or 4pm (or maybe earlier), but during the breaks we took for a drink and for lunch, and then after we were finished, other family members were drifting in and out. I don't remember all their names, but there was his uncle Noel and his partner, aunt Susan (or something..), Graham, Peter and his partner, and his cousin Matt and his partner Crista or something like that haha. I think that was all of them, and I just hope that next time I see them (which may be Christmas) they'll forgive me for not remembering their names and calling them "hey you!" xD It was a fun day though, I think I sat in the lounge room with Paul's Nana for about 3 hours or so just watching TV and dozing off slowly while Paul and Stephen did something in the shed. It was funny =]
Sunday was a good day too. I stayed over Paul's that night, and when we finally dragged our asses out of bed and had a shower and everything (which was about 3pm I should tell you), we went back over to my place for a while cause my grandmother from Norfolk Island was up! Pa wanted to come up that day too, but apparently (cause they're actually staying with Pa's sister while Pa has/had his surgery and appointments and stuff) his nephew was coming up to see him so he couldn't. But it was good to see my Grandma again. I hadn't seen her since my 18th, which was almost two years ago now. We talked for an hour or so about this and that, just catching up and hugging, I introduced her to Paul too. She seemed to like him. She loved the fact that he used to work at Bunnings (it's only her favourite store that she can get lost in for hours).
Then Aunty Toni and Adrian came over, and by this time Paul, Karlie and Bradley were playing Operation while I was playing Super Mario Sunshine on the Gamecube. I'm newly addicted to that game. But after they played Operation I turned off Mario and all four of us played The Game of Life: Twists and Turns, which is like a modern version of the original Game of Life. It was fun. Paul and I ended up bringing it back to his place and playing it again x3 We've decided that one night we want to have a big, awesome games night. Not computer/console games, but board/card games. So when we get that planned it should be ossum.
Anyway, our game got interrupted about halfway through for dinner, which was a roast and it was freaking amazing I might add. Paul loved it, and for dessert there was sticky date pudding and chocolate pudding and oh my god, I seriously died and went to heaven xD then after dinner and we finished our interrupted game, I took Paul home, then at about 11:30pm I came home again and went to bed, and today I just worked!
So there it is, my weekend and my not so good night tonight. I was literally shaking with anger when I left tonight to come to Paul's, I was that pissed off at Chad and Jayne. But hey, what's done is done now, I'm not talking to them, and they'll just have to deal with that until I feel that I can face them and their dramas again, which I don't see happening soon, but whatev. I'm sure they'll survive. I'm starting to think that I don't need extra crap like this sort of shit in my life you know?
Enough of my musings for one night, I'm just gonna chill out and watch some Pearl Harbour now, Paul's playing Fallout 3. It looks fun but he doesn't let me near it XD
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